Ambassador and Advocate - Curry - Green Cream Soda November 10, 2014

So here is the news. Not a whole ton this week. But I'll try to stretch it! :)

I think last week, someone was asking about a Primary Program. And if they do them here. I don't know why I didn't answer. But our Primary Program was yesterday. They do them in the more developed wards. And Florida is definitely a developed ward. It was cute. But I missed the normal Cedar Hollow Fourth Ward Primary Program. They do a better job ;)

Okay. So Friday we had exchanges. Ambassador, one of our investigators was interviewed. So Elder Brasher, our district leader came here. Anyway. Ambassador is 18. Super sweet kid. He actually reads the pamphlets we give him, ALWAYS comes to church. And we will be baptising his little brother, Advocate on the thirtieth as well. Anyway. They are both super cool! But I had a great time with Elder Brasher. He is from Idaho. He is a year younger than me. But is older than me on mission. Anyway, it was just so great to talk to someone that I have things in common with. Long story short, got in bed on time. But then, ya know, a few conversations later, it was about 4:30 in the morning. Hmm. But it was fun. Good conversations! But the rest of my weekend was spent being very tired! haha! Still don't regret it though. :)

Saturday night was good. Well, weekends usually suck here. I have become pretty good at filling our week days, but Saturday and Sundays are hard. Anyway. Saturday we went to the Williamson family's house for dinner. I mean, not like we went far, they live in the same house as us. Ha! But they are a sweet family. They have two cute kids. One is five the other is seven. The five year old isn't in school yet. His name is Lincoln. He likes to entertain us during our lunch break. And in the mornings. He is so funny! He also likes to look at all of my pictures! So when we went for dinner he was telling his parents all about me! They were like, we don't even need to invite the elders over, we can just ask Lincoln and we will know everything about you! Haha! Anyway. The wife is Indian. She is from Durban. There are a lot of Indians in Durban. And they Husband is white South African. Anyway. They made us Curry. I LOVE curry. Anyway. The wife, Sam. She went somewhere in the Southern US on her mission. Very interesting. Don't meet a lot of people who went on mission to the US. Anyway. She loves Mexican food. So we talked about Mexican food! And because Mexican food and spices here are so expensive, she has learned to make a lot of it from scratch. Anyway. She is going to teach me how to make taco seasoning! And then some other delicious things. And I am going to teach her how to make salsa! I am also going to learn how to make home made tortillas. Cause buying like a pack of six here is about four dollars or more. Ridiculous. But I am just learning every day. I love cooking. Takes my mind of things for a bit. It will be nice to be able to make my Mexican food for a bit cheaper though!

So right now it is the rainy season. Also summer. Anyway. Today we had the plans to go to a Lion and Rhino park. Where you get to play with Lions and Cheetahs and stuff. Anyway. It decided to down pour on us. So yeah, won't be doing that. oh well. Instead we are going to go to a museum? And see Mandela's house? I don't really know, but it should be cool.

I hear from Elder Swan every week. Sounds like things are going well in my African home of KaNyamazane. I miss it there so much. But I just remind myself that I need to be thankful that I was able to serve there.

Here is an odd tidbit. So we email at our Land Lord's house. The Bray's. They are super nice. Anyway. I will probably be able to Skype here on Christmas. Anyway. That is a random thought inside of a random though. But here is the real random though. So they have cream soda here. But it's NOTHING like cream soda at home. I can't even begin to describe it. But the only thing I can tell you is that it's green. Gross. Anyway, I really don't like it. But people here love it. Anyway, Sister Bray just brought us both HUGE glasses of cream soda. So here I go. Chug Chug Chug... :( Haha! But it was still a super nice gesture! People here love to give us soda, but it's called cold drink here.

Anyway. I am running out of things to tell you. Things are going pretty well here. I am enjoying the members. Also enjoying new friends in our district. Elder Brasher, and Elder Ryan. Good to be around some more people that are similar to me. I love you. And miss you like crazy. Thank you for everything. I love you!

Spiritual Confirmations - Cleaning - Salsa November 3, 2014

This week has honestly been a good week. Let me start out with why. First. I have had some great spiritual confirmations. I have spent most of my life thinking about what a mission was going to be like and feel like. I especially focused on this right before I came. And then I got here, and it wasn't like that at all. But this week I was having a hard time with that. And then I just realized, well, this is it. This is mission. Live it. It's only what you make. it. I realized, I can make it how I thought it would be. So I have been doing that. Just reminding myself, "this is mission, live it!". It has helped so much!

Secondly. Elder Dzowa acts super depressed sometimes. Okay, most of the time. So I just thought  "Why am I letting that bother me? Just because he is acting depressed, doesn't mean I need to act depressed." Being happy is a personal thing. A personal decision. I can choose for myself whether I want to be happy or not, regardless of how Elder Dzowa is acting. So I have been a lot happier. 

Elder Richards and Dzowa

Third. I just decided that I don't have to stress over the little things. I have been making a big deal out of things that don't matter. So I have been working on not letting those things matter. Don't sweat the small stuff.

Alright. So a few things you should be aware of. Supposedly, the postal strike is supposed to be over today. I don't think it is. But I was able to send letters home. I pray that you get them. But who knows, thanks to the wonderful world of African postal services. But there should be one for, Mom and Dad, Matthew, Lauren and Chase, Rachel, Micah, and Taylor ( I don't know her address so I just send them to you). And then one to Morgan, but I do know her address. So yeah.

This week, I kind of went on a cleaning rampage. Like that's new. At least for me as a missionary. I am kind of a clean freak. But I realized that cleaning is kind of a release, I can just forget for a second. Like I said cleaning FREAK. I clean for odd reasons. But I feel more comfortable in a clean flat, and it makes things easier. I can't describe it. So anyway. One night we had like all of our appointments cancel. So we decided to go clean the flat. Yeah. We went home and I cleaned the flat. Alone. Oh well. But I had a few cleaning tips from the office couples. Did you know that window cleaner is like an all around cleaner! It works for EVERYTHING! Especially grease. Which there happens to be a lot of in missionary flats. Because some missionaries think they can only fry food. Anyway. Steel wool and window cleaner became my best friends this week. Now our flat is great. Elder Dzowa asked me where I learned to clean. Said that he has never had a companion that has cleaned like me. He was very confused. But thankful at the same time. I mean, who wouldn't be! He has been living in that flat his whole mission, and it has NEVER looked like it does now! Haha! Plus it's way easier to keep clean now.

Alright. Now to Salsa. I have taken after you mother. I have been making home made salsa! It doesn't compare to yours. But it's good! Salsa here is hard to find. Well Mexican food is hard to find. Anyway. I just realized, I can make my own salsa! Mexican food is pretty much a hit here. Since it is found almost no where. So yesterday night I cooked for the Ndlovu family. I made tacos. They were very impressed. I mean, tacos are like the easiest thing in the world. But they deemed me the best cook they know! Haha! And they kept asking what and when I was going to cook again. Anyway. I also made my own version of queso dip (I have no clue how to spell that. Please fix it before you send it out!). Anyway. They don't have easy melt cheese here, or canned chili. So I had to be creative. I got some cheap cheddar cheese, which is pretty much easy melt cheese, and a can of baked beans (they have these cans that are "baked beans in tomato sauce") and then put some salsa in it. Then added a little bit of taco meat. It turned out really good actually. I also made home made guacamole. Because they guacamole seasoning packets they have in this area aren't good. It was a good dinner. Oh! I also found real tortilla chips! That was a plus for me!

South African Salsa

Nachos

So President Dunn has had this revelation that we need to have food storage. So I now have a big bag of rice and a big thing of water. Each missionary is supposed to have their own food storage by then end of this transfer. Which consists of basically what I bought. I hope that it isn't really revelation. But I just figured, he is the mission president, better listen. If something happens, great, I'm prepared. If not, even better.

So Wilkinson will be coming home at the end of November. He is taking thing home for me. I have a few things to send. Do you want anything specific? 

Lastly. There is a sweet family that told us yesterday that they signed up on our feeding calendar to have us over for Christmas Eve. I am very excited actually. I just feel loved. Which is nice. It will be good. 

So this week we have had some interesting experiences. We are teaching this very old lady named Doreen. She doesn't really speak English very well. The Elder I replaced is South African and was breaking the rules, and teaching her in their language, Zulu. But now he is gone and Elder Dzowa and I don't speak Zulu. So we have been struggling to teach her. But I, deep down, honestly think she should be baptized. Anyway she stays with another old couple. They are members. The member lady, Sister Mathebe has been VERY sick. We went over on Saturday and she couldn't even get out of bed. But they drug her out so we could give her a blessing. I seriously thought she was going to die. I thought I was going to be giving her her last blessing. Anyway. We gave her the blessing and went back to check on her on Sunday. And she was doing so much better. She couldn't even remember that we were there. They kept saying she was at the door of the spirit world. I truly believe she was. Anyway. She is doing much better now. I think it's because of her faith. She really has amazing faith.

We are also teaching this 18 year old kid. Ambassador. He is cool. Reads everything we give him. Very excited to get baptized. He should be baptized on the 16th of this month. He is a cool kid. 

Last Friday I was able to go on Exchanges. It was great. And then this Friday I am going again. For the baptismal interviews. I really like our district leader. His name is Elder Brasher. I think he is from Idaho and well. Really nice kid. This time I get to go with him. I'm excited about that. Exchanges are always nice. A good break from the same day to day routine.

Anyway. I knew last weeks email sucked. But I didn't have much time. So today, well, the past week, I tried to make sure that I had PLENTY of things to write. I hope it feels that way. But anyway. I love you and miss you so much! But things are moving. Again, thank you for everything. I love you so much!

Cow Intestines - Yuck October 27, 2014

So this week has been a bit of a roller coaster. Well a good one I guess. I have really been working on keeping the positive thoughts and keeping things in mind that I am looking forward to. So I guess I will start with the looking forward to things that have actually all passed now. I just need to find new ones now!

First. The temple. We were able to go to the temple. Which is always great! I always loved going to the temple with both of you. I seriously miss that. We will NEED to do that again when I get home. Okay? Good. Anyway. It was really good. My good friend from the MTC Elder Roybal is in my Zone. We actually got to sit next to each other. Anyway. It was just great to be at the temple again. Also. There was another movie. I didn't like it. I don't know if that's bad to say. But it felt like it was done in like the nineties. So...yeah. But the spirit was still the same!

Second. Exchanges with the Zone Leaders. That was great. I got to go with Elder Dye. He is from Idaho. Anyway. It was good to be with him. He had a ton of errands to run, so we didn't really get to do much. But it was still good. We hung out with some other elders. Made pancakes. It was good. Anyway. yeah.

Next was General Conference. I LOVED conference. It is always so good. I couldn't help thinking about you when Elder Holland talked on Saturday Afternoon about being generous and giving. You have blessed a lot of lives. Rako, Mandela and Cynthia, and many more. You are so loving and so giving. Thank you for that example. It was also fun to see Trevor in the MTC choir in priesthood session!

Anyway. Conference was a great time. Loved it as always.

The area is getting better. I am getting settled in. Trying to fill our time. Seeing members, hopefully getting referrals. I feel like that was emphasized in conference. Hopefully it will help people.

Elder Dzowa and I are getting along fine. We had a bit of an argument last night. Wasn't able to sleep very well. But we talked things out today, and I think it will help us in the long run.

I was able to eat some unique things. Cow parts. So people here eat intestines. So the Ndlovu family cooked that one night. Anyway. I ended up trying a piece of cow intestines and cow stomach. I will probably never eat it again. Not that it was bad, but the thought of what I was eating was just disgusting. And I'll be honest, the whole house smelled like poop while it was cooking. It was gross. Intestines. Nasty.

Well. I really have like no time today. But know that I love you and miss you like crazy. This week has gone good. It will continue to go well. I know. I am just working on not being so pessimistic. And being more positive.

I love you so much. I am so sorry this was so short. But know that I miss you and love you and that I am doing fine.

Love,

Turner

Transfer to Florida October 20, 2014

So. The news. I am now in an area called Florida! Oddly enough! I also think there is an Orlando close by! Haha! 

Florida is a town. Mostly a black town. It's not super nice. Well there are areas that are very nice. But we don't work too much in those areas. But it's weird to be back in town after being in the middle of no where for ever! And dealing with township livin'! But it will be good.

The ward is GREAT. We have a big ward. The members are awesome. I love them already. There are some recent converts. The Ndlovu family. They are amazing! A single mom with Brandon who is 18. Then Tanya who is 12. And Zweli who is 7. And then Blue who is like 2. They are SUPER nice. Very warm and welcoming. I had had a hard day, but when we got to their house, all of the worries melted away. They are just so great! They remind me exactly of Rhalda and Dmitri from Vereeniging! There is also a couple. Dominic and Cyndie who remind me EXACTLY of Lauren and Chase! The way they talk, interact, everything! It's great! Cyndie is actually a teacher and plays the organ at church! How funny! 

Odd facts. The MTC and Mission Office are in our area. So are the Dunns and Area General Authority. But of course we don't see either of them often. We have a nice chapel. It's the chapel that we do all of the transfers at. But in all honesty, I would give that up to be back in the humble little KaNyamazane branch. I miss it SO much.

My companion is Elder Dzowa. He is from Malawi. Unique. I thought I would be getting an America. But nope. Another African for me. I don't mean this in a racist way, but sometimes it is very hard to be with African companions. But I am working though it all. 

If I am being completely honest. I would want nothing more than to go back to KaNyamazane and serve the rest of my mission there. I am missing the people and the place SO much. It kills me. But that's not really a possibility. Oh well. 

I remember feeling the exact same way when I left Vereeniging. Elder Wilkinson told me, while we were companions, that the first two weeks of a new area are always super hard. But then it goes back to normal. That's kind of how it worked in KaNyamazane. I am just waiting until then. And praying like my life depends on it. But let's be honest, my sanity depends on it. So...yeah.

Thank you all for the advice. I was really worried that when I wrote and read today that I would just want to come home even more. But it actually has been a blessing that I feel better. I feel a little bit more motivated. Thank you. I love you so much. 

So we live in this little flat. SO small! It's like the size of one room in my last flat. But there are several different members that we live around. Don't see them often enough. But yeah. We email at our member land lord's house every week. But today we are at his mom's because his wife is gone. Anyway. Just nice to be sitting in a home. That feels comfortable. They are the Brays. They fed us dinner last night. African version of Chips and Cheese. they used Doritos and then just tomato and onion mix and then cheese. It was good. I am going to work some of my kitchen magic and make them again with a more american twist.

I always remember this quote from Mrs. Ellis. My seventh grade math teacher. "Complaining is like a rocking chair. It gives you something to do, but gets you no where". I'm trying to keep that in mind. I have been writing a list of "good" things. Here it is.

1: The ward is great.

2:  I have a really nice matress.

3:  The Ndlovu family rocks.

4:  Dominic and Cyndie feel like Lauren and Chase

5:  I get to go to the temple on Friday

6:  Exchanges are on Friday

7:  We had two GREAT father led family lessons yesterday

8:  The members are super great (too bad we don't see them more).

9:  I get to write home every Monday for free!

10:  THIS WON'T LAST FOREVER

Anyway. There's my list for the day. I just keep thinking I will probably end up loving this place as well. It will just take time. But anyway. Positivity and Prayers are my answers. 

I don't want to stop writing, but I don't have much else to say. I feel close right now. Mom, you always say that. And I think today is the first time that I am actually feeling that way as well. I love you so much. I miss you more than I can explain. But it is great to get those small moments that help me realize that I am doing what is right. 

I love you so much. 

Love,

Turner

Kind Words From the Swans - our Great Missionary

Sister Richards, Yesterday your son was transferred from Kanyamazane.  We will miss him but he will do well wherever he goes.  I just thought I would drop you a line to let you know what a fine missionary he is.  He is far and above most young men of his age especially when it comes to life skills.  His apartment was always immaculate. His daily work schedule always organized.  

A month or so ago my wife made banana bread.  I flippantly made the comment that none of them could make a loaf .....I was so confident that I would take all four of them out to a steak dinner if they succeeded.  Next week your son came to my door, with that cute smile on his face, and gave me a loaf.  He was so proud of himself!  That was an expensive lesson.  The funny thing is that every week since he has baked something different.  I don`t think he has baked the same thing twice.  Every Sunday he has a new treat for us. 

Yesterday we went to inspect his old apartment.  On the desk were instructions for the new elders on how to maintain baptismal dates for their investigators.   You could tell that his heart and soul was being left behind.  I think he would have been happy to serve his whole mission in Kanyamzane.  There are many good missionaries in the field but some I might worry about them when go home.  Not necessarily about their testimony but just how they will fair with some aspects of their life.  Some tend to revert back to the kids they were before they left.  Your son however will do fine.  He is well rounded in so many aspects... ..he works hard, he works smart, he is a peacemaker, he is clean, he likes to try new things and has solid testimony.  I sometimes wonder when our children do well whether its our fine parenting skills or their natural personality they brought with them.  In any case you may you both have done well.  I hope you and your family have been blessed for his service.  Elder Swan

Leaving the Hell I Love October 10, 2014

So..the big news. I am getting transferred. It's quite the story.

So. Friday afternoon after district meeting, President Dunn gives us a call. He asks to talk to Elder Malapula. Anyway. Elder Malapula is now going to be a Zone Leader. Which is odd to me. But yeah. So we knew he was leaving. Because there are only certain areas Zone Leaders are, and KaNyamazane is NOT one of them. Anyway. So I just figured I would be staying for probably one more transfer. I mean, it would be odd if we both left, we have a lot of people on date to be baptized and a lot of investigators in our investigator pool. So I just went around assuming that I was staying.

Then Saturday afternoon. Let me start with this. We had a soccer game. Young men against the Elders/High Priests. It was actually fun. I didn't hate my life the whole time we were playing. Imagine that. Anyway. After we were sitting in our flat and we get the transfer news. And it says I was leaving as well as Malapula. It came SUPER early. Like usually we get it at like ten at night. But we got it at like one in the afternoon. Anyway. I was pretty disappointed. And confused. Why would they white wash this area? But what can you do?

Anyway. I kind of went into this nervous frenzy and started doing all sorts of stuff. Basically, I cleaned the whole flat and packed most of my things in the time it took Elder Malapula to wash the dishes. Like I say, nervous frenzy. There was just so much to get done. With two new elders coming in, the flat needed to be cleaned. The area book needed to be spick and span. And they needed some directions. And on top of all of that, I needed to say goodbye to everyone.

So Saturday night we said goodbye to a lot of people. It was hard. But not as hard as Sunday.

Sunday we got up, got ready and went to church. They gave us both time to bear our testimonies. And Malapula went first, then me. Of course, being the emotional weirdo I am, was fighting back tears the whole time. Anyway. I sat down, and then Elder Swan announces that the closing song will be "God Be With You Till We Meet Again". I mean, COULD YOU HAVE PICKED A WORSE SONG! I couldn't even sing.

Then after church we spent time taking pictures and saying goodbyes. I think it was so hard because I had such a hard time when I first got here. I really had to focus on getting to love this place and these people. And it worked. Really well. I seriously love these people with all of my heart. The goodbyes were harder than the airport at home. When I left home, I knew I would see you guys again. But reality is, I may never see these people again in this life.

As far as the $100 goes. I bought new running shoes. And then returned them. Anyway. So I already had the equivalent of $100 in cash. So I just gave that. Anyway. I asked the Swans what to do with it. And they just said to pray about it. I thought about giving it to the Deluz family. When we went to say goodbye, I got out the envelope like three times, but it just didn't feel right to give it to them. They are struggling. But things are looking up. And they get help from the church. The people that came to mind were Mandela and Cynthia. I seriously love them so much. They were the hardest people to say goodbye to. Anyway. I gave Mandela my watch, cause he loves it. And then I explained to them that they couldn't tell anyone about what I was going to give them next. So I gave them the money and they were both shocked and about in tears. But I just felt like they were the right people to give it to. Their parents are divorced, their dad is NO help and their mom makes next to no money. There are weeks when they only have water. Not enough food. Anyway. They aren't getting church assistance, like the Deulz family is. But know that your money is going to a great cause. To a family that will build the Lords' Kingdom in South Africa.

Anyway. Saying goodbye was hard. To President Banda as well. He is an amazing man. Doing such great things for these people. I baked him cookies, wrote him a letter and gave him a tie. He always comments on how I wear "beautiful" ties. So now he can't forget me!

Sunday night we had dinner with the Swans and the Scotts and the Nelspruit Elders. We had a Braai (Barbeque). It was delicious. I have to say, I will miss the Swans a ton. They have been so great to me. I guess I just have to be thankful that I got to serve with them. I will seriously miss them. They are amazing people.

Anyway. Today we are driving to Johannesburg and then transfers are tomorrow. I will find out where I am going then. So you won't hear until next week. I have just been praying for a companion and area that I will love.

Well. This week has been good. I am hoping that everything goes well with transfers. OH!! Here are some happy things. Elder Swan called Sister Hunts Sunday night and I got to talk to her! So good to talk to her. It was too nice. Also. Elder Hunt emailed Elder Swan and told him that to tell me good luck and they said "love that Richards. He's a good boy". That made me feel good. Haha. Elder Swan also had some super nice things to say about how it was probably going to be harder for me to leave than Malapula because I am a lot better at connecting with people. Anyway. Just happy things. Always nice to hear good things about yourself.

Well. I love you and miss you like crazy. Christmas is around the corner! Love you!

Alfredo and Khulekani Deluz

Brilliant

Dansile and Sister Sara

Faith and Chenai

Gogo Grace

Group of Relief Society Sisters

Love,

Turner

Mashegos - Do they run the branch?

Nobunga Family

Nomsa - the RM

Peace and Thandeka

Peace - my best friend

President Banda - Branch President and great man

Romeo and Ellen

Sanelle

Shantelle and Gogo Sophie

 

Sindi and Sara

Sister Martha

Sister Thalita and Nunu

Thabang

Thandeka

The Swans (Bob the Builder), Turner and Malapula

Young Men and Turner

Thelma and family - fed us every Sunday

Thembalinhla

These kids like to beat on me!

Thoblea Family - fed us twice a week

View from Mandelas - beautiful

Companion Struggles, KFC, Thobekani's baptism September 29, 2014

Mandela and Cynthia - amazing converts

I am skipping around some. I'll start with Friday and exchanges. Elder Ah Wong was coming to KaNyamazane with me. It started out pretty frustrating. We had a lesson with a lady named Ntombi. It went fine. Then we went to our next lesson with our recent converts Mandela and Cynthia. It was probably one of the best lessons I have ever had. The spirit was there so strongly. I felt so touched that I had the opportunity to be a part of these two amazing converts conversion. They are both so strong and amazing people. I love them so much. But while teaching I could just feel the love our Heavenly Father had for, not only them, but for me as well. I was able to express that to both of them. Let them know that they would do amazing things for this gospel. It broke my heart when they told us that when they take the 5k walk to church every week, people tease them and say horrible things to them. But then it was beautiful to hear their words. That it didn't matter to them. They knew the church was true. It has brought them so many blessings, and no matter what anyone said, they couldn't take that way from them.

It just felt so amazing to feel the love of our Heavenly Father. Knowing that he cared from them, and he still cares for and loves me.

The next lesson we had was with Thando. He was supposed to be baptized yesterday, but he didn't pass him interview. Anyway, we watched the Restoration DVD with him. The spirit was definitely there as well. Testifying to me, over again, that all of this is true. This gospel, everything that happened to Joseph Smith, it is all so very real. It's always amazing to feel those spiritual impressions, re-testifying to us the truth of these things.

Needless to say, it was an amazing exchange.

Saturday was good. Back with Elder Malapula. I think that I realized that some of my anxiety is coming from him. I don't know what he does, but he makes me anxious. It's not his fault. He is nice. Doesn't do things wrong. But who ever said anxiety is rational? Anyway. I worked through those things. And eventually by today, I am feeling great about things again.

This gospel, and my mission, are bigger than me. Bigger than anything I could ever do or accomplish on my own. I am so lucky to be able to share this with the people of South Africa. That doesn't express how I feel very well, but I can't seem to but it into better words.

Anyway. Here are some highlights of the week.

Tuesday night we had a lesson with the Deluz family, for Khulekani. We decided to take KFC with us and eat dinner with them. When we walked up to their house (which happens to be at  the top of a mountain. It's beautiful I will send pictures soon) the kids faces lit up. They were SO excited! Anyway. We sit on make-shift chairs. Which happen to be five gallon buckets. And then we put our white board that we were using to teach on top of one to make a table. It was seriously so fun. I have never enjoyed greasy chicken more! Like I said, the kids were thrilled! Then, after we ate. The camera came out. And I am pretty sure they were just as excited about that as they were about to KFC. Anyway. They wanted TONS of pictures! It was hilarious! I will be printing those for them. They are very excited. It was a great night.

The Deluz Family - Great night eating KFC

Anyway. The Deluz family is struggling a lot. But Sister Swan, while she was on her mission in El Salvador, found that it was good to buy struggling families chickens. It provides some self reliance. So Elder Swan (who I am pretty sure is Bob the Builder) built a chicken palace (not coop). And bought them chickens. Anyway. They were very happy about that. Also. They have no running water at their house. And have to wake up at four in the morning to hike down the mountain (which isn't that big, don't worry, it's really just a hill) to get water every morning. But they have these big water tanks called Jojo's that you can buy. So the Swans organized a Jojo for the family as well. So many people are being blessed by the Swans kindness and willingness to help. They are amazing people.

Thobekani's baptism - great day!

Next. Thobekani's baptism. Such a sweet kid. He has been coming to church for about six months. I have been teaching him the whole time. Anyway. He was finally prepared fully to be baptized. It was a great day! So excited for him. However, as it is summer here, it is also the rainy season. And yesterday was very rainy. But the baptism was still great! The only problem, is how can you dry and pack up a portable baptismal font, in the rain. We were actually pretty successful with what we had. The baptism was great!

KaNyamazane. . .Great Happenings September 22, 2014

So. I don't know if I mentioned the banana bread incident yet. But one morning Sister Swan made us banana bread. We asked for the recipe and Elder Swan says that if any of us can actually bake banana bread, he will buy is a real steak dinner. To shorten the story, he obviously had to buy me steak. Because I can cook! But it's lead to me cooking lunch today. The Swans feed us lunch every Monday. But now I cooked today. I made salsa chicken. And we're gonna eat them like tacos. Guacamole, sour cream, corn, cheese, and the chicken. I also made a tres leches cake. To go along with the Mexican theme. Good thing I have good parents that taught me how to cook! 

We had the Zone Leaders here on Friday.  Elder Neuenschuander from Spanish fork came with us. We had two baptismal interviews. One passed. Thobekani. Seventeen year old kid. He asked me to baptize him. I am actually really honored to do it.  I love him. He is a sweet kid. Thando, the other interview. Didn't go as well. E. Neuenschuander felt that we should wait a bit. Which is totally fine with me. That's his calling. To see if people are prepared. If they're not, then we will keep working with them until they are! E. Neuenschuander also had some very kind things to say to me. About how he could just feel my love for the people, and that it's hard to find genuine love, but I have it. He told me I was funny. That's always a confidence booster! Haha. But it was nice to hear good things. 

So we have this kid named Mbonguseni. 20 years old. A bit defiant. But for some reason I care about him a lot. He has come SO far. Working with him to want to get baptized and to gain a testimony if the true church and Joseph Smith. But he finally realized that it's all true. He just struggles keeping the word of wisdom. But I offered to make him cookies is he would keep it for two weeks! And I don't make cookies for just anyone! And then his mom decided that after that I should teach him how, so when he wants it smoke, he can bake instead! Haha! Instead of smoking, get fat! 

Well. This week has been good. Nothing else too eventful. I am still loving KaNyamazane. Great place. Beautiful place. Amazing people. Just soaking it up whole it lasts.

Temple Visit, Zone Conference, and Investigators September 15, 2014

This week has been good. Nothing too crazy has been happening. Well. We had some great experiences. But we will get to that. Right now I guess.

So Thursday we got to go to the temple! Usually out here you don't get to go to the temple because we are so far away! But we got special permission to go when we went down for Zone Conference. So we went on Thursday! Of course we had the four and a half hour drive. That sucked. But we went to the temple. I made a few purchases. I got some new garments. And then Mormon Messages dvds. They are great to teach with. But I also got some new scriptures. But I am getting them covered. There is a guy who covers scriptures with different animal skins. So I am going to have him do that. Something I definitely couldn't get done at home! So I feel like it is a souvenir that is worth it!

Anyway. Back to the temple. We were supposed to go to the five o'clock session. But there was no witness couple there. So the temple workers hemmed and hawed over what to have us do. So they decided they would have us do sealings. Something I have never done before. So we went and were sealed sons to parents. There was a senior couple working in the area office, the Hales. They were the parents. It was AMAZING. I can't even begin to describe. The blessings that are given to sealed families. I mean, I can't imagine anyone who wouldn't want those blessings. Blows my mind that people go through the temple and then decide that it's not important to them. Too many people here are like that. It's sad. But anyway. What an awesome experience it was. The spirit was overwhelming.

Then we got to do the six o'clock session. And it was with all of the area office couples and then the Area President was there! So great! And I saw the new movie. I don't know how new it was, but it was the first time I had seen it. Anyway. It was such a great session. I love the temple! Wish I could go every day!

We had Zone Conference on Friday. It was good. Very different from President Omer. I miss them. I loved President Omer. I am trying very had to find that love for President Dunn. However, Sister Dunn did a great little workshop. I really like her. She is just so loving and kind, it radiates from her. Great mission mom! But the sad part was the couple of zones that were at the conference didn't really have any of my mission friends. But it was still good. But we had to drive the four and a half hours again. Ugh. But it's nice being back. It's home out here in the middle of nowhere.

Those were some big events. But nothing else besides those happened. But we have some amazing people I would like to tell you about. I wish I could share about everyone. But there are too many.

Anyway. Shantel, when she was baptized the end of August, she brought her friend Brandon. Anyway. We started teaching him. He is a really sweet kid. He is 22 but still in grade 10. Odd how things work here. Age is very different, especially with school. Anyway. We have started teaching him and he has caught on very well. He even volunteered to teach Gospel Principles last week. So yesterday, his third week at church he taught a great lesson on Adam and Eve! But he is awesome. He and his sister are orphaned. They were both originally orphaned, but they were adopted. Anyway. Their adopted mom died earlier this year. And now they are alone. It's heart breaking. But I know the gospel will help him.

Next we have Thando. He is related to Nunu one of our recent converts. And randomly came to church one week a few weeks back. We started teaching him. He learned SO quick. It was great. He loves the church and will be interviewed this coming Friday. Super excited!

The last is a kid named Khulekani. His family, well parents, were baptised a long time ago. And then they left for about two years. Now they are back. Anyway. They came to church and there was a baptism. Their son asked when he could be baptized. He is eleven. So we have to teach him. Anyway. He is a sweet kid. But all the years of swim lessons, and swim team working with little kids is helping! And my primary experiences! He is eleven, but the English is I think his third language. And for the parents English is very hard. So it is a slow process but I love their family. So humble. they live in a little shack. Two parents two kids. No electricity, no running water. No job. But they are amazing still! I love going there. The spirit they have with them you can't find anywhere else.

Well the work is moving forward. I am loving being a missionary. Some days it is easier to love it than others. But I am trying as hard as I can. I am so thankful you got to talk to the Omers and the Hunts. I love them both so much! I hope you have a good week. I love you and miss you!

Herman the House Lizard. . .Evicted! September 8, 2014

Alright. So this week I wrote things down so that I could remember what to write about! 

First. Nelspruit got a new senior couple, the Scotts. They are from Alpine - great people. They are very comfortable with missionary work. Like VERY. Elder Scott gave a man a blessing in the middle of the grocery store parking lot. Very odd. At least to me. But they are great people. Very nice. But we don't really ever see them. But I love seeing the Swans! Anyway. Sister Scott reminds me of someone, but I can't quite put my finger on who it is.

Second. Happy birthday to my father! I won't try to sing anything awkward over email. Sounds like that's waiting for you at work anyway! I was laughing very hard at your description of that!

Third. Rako is now home he called me last Wednesday morning on his way to the airport. It is weird that my companions are already starting to go home! But I guess it also makes sense because I am approaching my nine month mark! But it was sad to say good bye to him. He drove me crazy, but in the process he became a great friend. I will miss him. He has plans to come to BYU. I just hope that happens.

 

Fourth. Lizard! Here there are lots of little lizards hat will just live in the ceiling of people's houses. And of course, we live in a township. So we have lizards. But ours isn't little. He's HUGE! I'll send pictures soon. But his name is Herman - Herman the house lizard. But Herman the house lizard is no more. We got home one night and he was just chilling on the wall. We were both kinda (okay not kinda, really) freaked out. So I got a broom and tried to get it to move. Wasn't really working. But then Malapula got another broom and together we started to direct it out the window. But imagine this, two missionaries, home after a long day, looking battered and worn poking a lizard with brooms, freaking out and yelling every time it even moved an inch! Bahaha! It was seriously hilarious. I don't know if you remember my bat story from Old Navy. But not only am I a bat wrangler, I am now a lizard wrangler! So many new talents I am learning. Now if we could only get the cat sized rats to leave our bathroom ceiling.

So yes, Malapula drives me crazy sometimes. But I have a new idea. And it works. I mean, it's not an original Turner Richards idea. But still. It all started when Elder Swan told us if we could bake banana bread he would buy us a nice steak dinner. Little did he know. I can actually cook. So long story short. We got the steak dinner. But it pretty much kick started my cooking habits again. So now I am cooking and baking. I made banana muffins one day. For our gospel principles class. Yesterday I made no bake cookies. Seriously love those! But anyways back to my original thought. I decided I would bake for Malapula now. So I made him creeps. I'm pretty impressed with myself. No recipe. Just made them. But if I cook for him. Makes things easier. It's true, serving your companion works.

Another cooking story. So we went to this investigators house. Sonia and Sam. The unmarried couple. She says that we are making pizza. Basically that we are making it for them. So, luckily I've been around the block a few times in the are of homemade pizza! But they didn't have sauce. They only have ketchup! So. I made a pizza sauce. Out if nasty ketchup. I added some flour. Garlic and herbs seasoning. Onions and some tomatoes. To my surprise, it came out pretty nice. But what they wanted on it was onions and viennas. Which are hot dogs! Hot dog pizza! What the fetch?! But I am becoming quite the chef! 

Alright. Your questions. People feed us. Like we get fed almost every night lately. But I eat a lot of veggies and pasta. Malapula and I have been cooking together. Tommy surprise, his food isn't that weird! But I haven't been drinking my protein cause I haven't actually been the best at working out. So ya.

Our investigator pool keeps growing. We actually broke my record of number o
f investigators at church last week. We had ten. My best was nine. But it was sweet! We have some cool people. A single mom named Nonto. I may have mentioned her a while back. But she finally made it to church. She is going through some rough times financially, but we have an amazing Branch President. President Banda. Ask the Hunts about him. Then we have Thando. Cool kid. He is kind of related to our recent convert Nunu. Super prepared. He'll be baptized on the 28th along with Thobekani another cool kid, and Mbongiseni who's  mom is a member. She had him while she was 14! Now he is 20. Cool kid. Just working out some bugs in his understanding. Praying hard for him.  Lots of our recent converts have been doing some sweet missionary work! Always plenty of people to teach and prepare. I am too blessed to be here. 

Anyway. Things are going goods thus coming Friday is Zone Conference. And the four of us are going down early and going to the temple on Thursday, I am too excited! Usually your zone goes every other transfer. But we don't get to go because we are so far! But we got permission! I'm too excited! I miss being able to go to a handful of different temples. Can't wait to do that again. I loved temple sessions with mom and dad!